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Obituary for Michael John Pergolatti Jr.
Michael “Mike” John Pegolatti, 36, passed away Saturday January 27, 2024. He was born on April 10, 1987 in New Haven, CT to Mike Pergolatti, Sr and Debra Barner. Mike was preceded in death by Grandparents James and Barbara Pergolatti and Joe Farrell.
Mike most recently worked in construction; however, he could be considered a jack of all trades with lots of dreams and plans which he was always excited to share. Mike had a huge heart and a way of making everyone in his pretense feel loved and important.
Survivors include his father, Michael John Pergolatti Sr. (Sue); mother, Debra Barner (Ken); fiancée, Jaime Buchanan; sister, Alyssia Grier; bother, Nicholas Pergolatti; grandparents, Evelyn and James Effie; nephew, Luca Hutasangkas.
Mike will be missed by many friends that were family to him.
What a short life
Michael was such a joy to be around, always happy always had an infectious smile even on his darkest days. He had the biggest heart and the kindest soul of anyone who has been in my life. I have never heard anyone tell me that he was anything other than polite and kind with a huge heart. I’d like to think I had something to do with that. There won’t be a day that goes by that he won’t be on my mind. How can I lose my baby so young. He had so many things to do and goals to accomplish in his life. The mere sound of his laugh is one that was infectious and will never be forgotten. If only he knew how important he was to so many.
He loved anything space you could ask him about any planet or the universe and he had the answer. NASA was a dream for him. On a side note gaming was also a passion him he sure did love his computer and gaming and again aced it. Anything that he put his heart into he knocked it out of the park. He was so smart and applied himself when he was passionate his drive was very focused on those things.
He was the funniest little kid always making us laugh dancing around the house. Happiest boy I loved to be around.
His teenage years were a little tougher for him but when he grew older he started to find his way. He had soooo many invention ideas we tossed back and forth I would always find something that wouldn’t work lol he also found many that wouldnt work for me either or maybe already invented haha.
Every call was ended in “ok love u bye” and that will be the toughest part not being able to hear his voice or him needing me. Now the tables have turned and I need him.
I don’t know how I will ever continue without him in my life but I know he will watching over me. I will forever be broken.
He is preceded by his mother Debra Barner( step father Ken Barner),his father Mike Pergolatti(step mother Susan Pergolatti), sister Alyssia Grier (her son Luka), a brother Nicolas Pergolatti, grandparents James and Evelyn Affie, uncle Larry Farrell (his wife Renee, and children Spencer and Ally) and uncle Brian Farrell, his fiancée Jaime Buchanan.
He is a wonderful soul and heaven is blessed to have him as we were.
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